dude, relax man. these things happen every now and then. In terms of your car right, make sure that the body shop checks out the frame/subframe properly and that it wasnt pushed back on impact. Also, make sure everything in front, your intake, your radiator, all the radiator hoses, everything is still workin and not leaking. From what you've described, it seems mostly cosmetic la... no big deal...so time for a new aftermarket bumper! i recommend kamei or oettinger... both very nice brands. Not too expensive either...plus it would cost only slightly more than a stock bumper considering most of it should be covered by insurance. Just be glad that youre safe and all... plus, it couldve been worse. you could've hit harder and the air bags couldve blown and then your car would be worthless...not to mention that you probably would get nasty bruises on your face from the impact of the bags...chill man..i know the sinkin feelin of an accident...not fun but shit happens